Guidance & support for couples in love who want to build a strong relationship based on trust and understanding.
- We’ll have a session with you, the person who made the first step. I will hear you out and offer some suggestions.
- I will have a chat with your partner to understand their point of view.
- We’ll have a group session with you and your partner so we can find a common ground and pave a way forward.
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How quickly you will see the results depends on how easy or difficult it is for you to implement the changes. We’ll make a plan together, but you will be the one doing it.
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Our first session is for us to get to know each other. If we are a fit, then we can identify what you really want and brainstorm different ways to get there.
As you progress, you will evolve and your goals may change. So every now and then we’ll have a review session to make sure we are on the right track.
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We tend to associate this phenomenon with neediness (lacking necessities in life, needing emotional support). But what happens when we strip it down to the meaning as defined by the dictionary?
definition of attachment:
Affection (a gentle feeling of fondness or liking), fondness (affection or liking for someone or something) or sympathy (feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune) for someone or something.
So here we have gentle feeling of affection and pity with sorrow all in one
1. the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.
2. an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action.
When it comes to relationships, first definition of commitment demonstrates to the readiness to put the work in to make a relationship work. The second definition, on the other hand points carries with it the restriction of freedom.
No wonder it can get confusing when two people are talking about committed relationship. It’s hard to make sense of things when even the dictionary defines commitment in two opposite ways: 1 – you are willing to do what it takes to make a relationship work and 2 – is you are essentially stuck with an obligation of having to be in this predicament.
So let’s debug this relationship conundrum and figure out what it means to make a relationship work…
The idea of fairness penetrates very deeply in every aspects of our minds and our lives.
Impartial and just treatment or behaviour without favouritism or discrimination.
The key word in this definition is ‘just’. When we are looking for fairness, we are essentially judging ourselves, another person or the situation. But who is the judge? Who is to decide what’s right and what’s wrong?
The quality of being honest.
So being honest is telling the truth. Pretty straightforward, right?
On the surface it’s a simple thing: you either tell the truth or you don’t. Though many of us fail in even doing this much. We think that it’s ok to tell a lie or omit the truth if the circumstances call for it.
There are two aspects to this: moralistic and practical. We can morally judge if it’s right or wrong to tell a lie. Practically every action has a reaction. This means that the outcome depends on the action and not if this action was done for the right or the wrong reason. Unless you are dealing with another person who is also acting based on their moralistic judgement. This can get complicated as their right and wrong may differ from your right and wrong.
So, is it possible to be honest in a relationship? And what would such a relationship look like? (From personal experience…)
1. the ability to understand something; comprehension.
“foreign visitors with little understanding of English”
– the power of abstract thought; intellect. “a child of sufficient intelligence and understanding”
– an individual’s perception or judgement of a situation.”my understanding was that he would find a new supplier”
2. sympathetic awareness or tolerance.
“he wrote with understanding and affection of the people of Dent”
3. an informal or unspoken agreement or arrangement.
“he and I have an understanding”